Full-time Carers make life changing decision
Two mature students from Hugh Baird College are proving that it’s never too late to make a change and develop new skills.
Victoria Marshall and Laura Crellin had been undertaking crucial and selfless caring roles and were looking out for everyone but themselves. But as circumstances changed and their caring responsibilities reduced somewhat, they decided to do something for themselves and took the bold move to return to education. After a long time away from the classroom, this was not a decision taken lightly by the pair, but one that is now really paying dividends and is transforming them as people.
There are over 6.5 million people in the UK who are carers for a friend or family member, many of these individual may not even initially see themselves as carers. They are mums and dads, husbands, wives, partners, brothers, sisters, friends and neighbours. They are simply doing what anyone would, looking after a loved one or friend and generally helping where they can. However, this can have a major time draw on those in such roles and often, carers make a number of sacrifices.
Victoria, from Liverpool, is a carer for her mum and felt she wanted to start her own business and realised that she needed to gain skills that would enable her to work flexibly around her caring role. In 2018, Victoria enrol on a Level 2 Diploma in Beauty Therapy at Hugh Baird College. This was a pathway she had always had an interest in, but life had just taken over and she’d never found time to pursue her passion.
When Victoria first started at the Hugh Baird College, she was worried that she would feel out of place due to her being a mature student. However, this could not have been further from the truth and with support from College staff and fellow classmates who were also around her age, she thrived and felt her confidence levels and feelings of achievement and pride grow each week she attended her College course. Despite some challenging times in her first year where Victoria had to juggle a number of priorities both in her caring role and her role as a student of the College, she successfully passed her Level 2 Diploma in Beauty Therapy. Buoyed by this success and the feeling of achievement it gave her, Victoria moved on to study for the Level 3 Advanced Technical Diploma in Beauty and Spa Therapy as she felt this qualification would further broaden the treatments she would be able to offer clients once she started her own business.
I was so nervous returning to College as a mature student, but I knew it was time for a change and time to put myself first. Being a carer for my Mum is my main priority. But I’m proof that if you want something enough then you can find a way of making it happen. I’m not lying, it has been hard at times, but anything worth having requires hard work and the right attitude.
The support you receive from the College is amazing and the tutors understand the external pressures you’re dealing with. If they can see you are serious about achieving, then they will go out of their way to support you and help you however they can. I can’t speak highly enough of Hugh Baird College and especially the staff in the Beauty Therapy department. Thanks to them I feel like a new person with direction and goals that I’m determined to achieve.
Similar to Victoria, Laura Crellin, from Bootle, had always put others before herself. Laura’s eldest son has autism and this required her to be his full-time carer and be home to support him should he need her in any way. However, in 2017, with her son in full-time education, she decided it was time for her to focus on herself. Laura had left school with very few GCSEs but having matured and had time to really consider what she wanted from a career and life in general, she took the bold decision to learn what she’d need to do in order to become a teacher.
Laura met with a Careers Advisor at Hugh Baird College and learnt that her route to eventually qualifying as a teacher would not be straightforward and would require a considerable investment of her time. But she was determined and focussed and enrolled on the first of a number of qualifications she would need to complete in order to get to university and ultimately in a classroom as a teacher.
In 2018, Laura undertook the Skills for Health and Care Professions qualification, a course that gave her the qualifications to move onto a 1-year Access course that would finally get her to University. During summer, she resat her GCSEs in Maths and English and gained an outstanding grade 8 in her GCSE English and a grade 5 in her GCSE Maths exams.
I am so thankful I decided to return to education, it hasn’t been easy but the support from family, friends, tutors and peers has been amazing. It’s quite a shock to the system going back to college as a mature student but I have loved every minute of it, my whole educational journey has been with Hugh Baird College and I am so grateful for the encouragement, inspiration and support I have received every step of the way.
Deciding to take a step back from caring for my son full-time was a very hard decision to make, but I am so glad I did, one day his Mum will be a teacher!
As a further education college, Hugh Baird College has a moral duty to support all students who identify as a carer starting from day one. Once a student is identified as a carer a support plan is in place in collaboration with Sefton Young Carers. Sefton Young Carers provide a Carer’s assessment which looks at the different ways that a student’s caring role affects their life and makes sure that they can carry on doing the things that are important to them.
For more information on the support available at Hugh Baird College, please visit: www.hughbaird.ac.uk/student-support or alternatively, please call 0151 353 4444.